Just Saying

 Is it sweet? Not to everyone, as I am sure with reasons. But there are those people whom just get under your skin and make your eye twitch, I  have had it with negative people, I can be having a great day when all the sudden one person can turn it into a drama filled day of bullshit and ruin even the good part of it. Life is full of opinions and ideas, and it just seems that some people will stop at nothing to force their opinions on you like they are lifes rules that you must follow, I say avoid these people , they have a way of ruining what short of a life we have here. Life can be either lived or just had. I love to have fun and laugh and make people happy , but I don't feel our happiness should be the price for someone elses negativity and forced opinions  in life. I hate, yes hate , people that ignore problems that can lead to violence or heartbreak, yet people will ignore problems to avoid embarrassment or criticism or conflict and pretend things are ok , this is not on the road to a sweet life, it will always end in disaster , talk your problems out and damn it listen to each other , and if the problems are not of the others concern , then they are nothing but a manipulator and you should just keep truckin leaving them in the dust behind , because they will only make life sour and stop you from being truly happy. What I mean is, if someone has been up your ass about the way you should do things ect.. and they have no invitation to dig, leave them in the past , they will only bring your future full of more drama. Friendly advice is different though a person can truly care what choices you make and talk with you and give their opinion nicely without harsh judgment but if they get mad and start a fight when you revoke their  opinion or advice they aren't worth the hassle, and if their crude and mean then sweeter is your life without them. I am not saying that a parent doesn't have the right to enforce some rules with their opinions because let's face it opinions on life and how it should be handled is what raising kids comes from , on our own personal judgment and experiences in life. But as an adult dealing with another adult that is out side of ones home, it feels like an attack , and these people really need to see how they cause bad examples and  unnecessary drama.